Saturday, January 19, 2008

Girls Weekend

Last weekend I headed down to South Jersey to visit with my gal-in-laws (mother and sister). We started the fun just after my arrival by shopping (not til we dropped - that would've been a bad idea). We hit up the Express sale, NY & Co and Forever XXI. I got some great pieces at Express and Forever XXI - just need the right weather to rock my new clothes. Right now it's way too cold in Jersey to fabulous.

We then headed out to dinner at a local Italian place called Rockefellas - very gangsta. Food was pretty good and I ate my Penne Vodka leftovers for 2 days afterwards! After dinner we took advantage of modern cable television and ordered Waitress, starring Keri Russell. I have to say this is one heck of a chick flick. It's a little unusual but it has the wife from Curb Your Enthusiasm, the OB/GYN husband from Desperate Housewives and the techie guy from Ocean's Eleven and Twelve. A lovable movie.

The next day I decided to hang out longer and we took in a preview showing of Katherine Heigl's new movie, 27 Dresses at the local theater. There were some technical difficulties getting the movie to show after the previews but after about 15 minutes we were able to enjoy the show. I have to say that Katherine is a good actress in this movie but I my favorite character was James Marsden's as the newspaper wedding writer. There was a lot of typical chick flick formulaic annoyance, drama and then love. Can't ever forget the love cause that's why I enjoy chick flicks so much. I enjoyed 27 Dresses and since it's now in theaters I recommend you go and enjoy it too. Guys, you should sit this one out.

Thursday, January 10, 2008

Funniest Cooking/Travel Show Ever!

During my recent television watching I've been seeing hilarious commercials of chef Anthony Bourdain's new show No Reservations. Some of the commercials have Anthony riding a RV and while riding he starts to tumble down the sandy hill. I know it's probably dangerous but it is hilarious watching it happen, listening to the beeps that replaces the curses and him being perfectly safe. All in good fun.

So I gave in and added Mr. Bourdain to my DVR line-up. Anthony basics chooses different locales around the world goes their on a trip with a friend as his guide. It's more a travel show than cooking but the cooking is done by the natives who do it best. The first episode I saw was a visit to Vietnam to see a friend and some wild trips around Vietnam. You have to see it for yourself. But at one point he is visiting a very remote part of Vietnam, the alcohol comes out and the Vietnamese get down to dancing ... with sticks. It's like trying to do double dutch crunked out. Anthony did it and afterwards he gets up in the camera and says, "Fred mother bleeping Astaire, bitches!" I was dying. It was amazing.

As I write this I am watching the episode where he visits Seoul, Korea. I am drooling over all the amazing Korean food and need to get myself to my local Korean BBQ joint.

Saturday, January 05, 2008

Time to Leave the Necktie ... Hanging.

In a recent Wall Street Journal article, Nicholas Antogiavanni made the follow commentary on the state of the necktie:

"[N]either shall there come upon thee a garment of two kinds of stuff mingled together." --Leviticus 19:19

Thus was born, somewhere in the Sinai desert over 3,000 years ago, the sumptuary law. Ironically, politics and clothing have mingled ever since.

Generally speaking, American politicians are the dullest dressers on the planet. But, three or four times a century, our presidential contests have a direct effect on the sartorial life of the nation. The last such occasion was when the rakish Ronald Reagan replaced the cloddish Jimmy Carter and helped usher in a new era of formality.

Another revolution is now upon us -- though of a decidedly different character. Barack Obama -- unquestionably the hippest candidate for the presidency since John F. Kennedy -- may do to the tie what Kennedy helped do to the hat. It's a myth that JFK killed the hat simply by not wearing one to his inauguration -- actually, that was the one instance when he did wear one. But by ostentatiously eschewing a hat everywhere else, at a time when the hat's place in the male wardrobe needed all the high-level support it could get, a very public "nay" vote from that suave, young, handsome patrician helped tip the balance against it.

Today, the tie is in similarly dire straits. Sales are way down. Its status as the sartorial signifier par excellence of business, seriousness and ceremony is in jeopardy. California abandoned it at about the same time, and for many of the same reasons, that the Golden State jettisoned Reaganism. The effete East held out longer, but when Wall Street and the law firms went "business casual" during the last boom, the necktie went on life-support.

There it lingers, kept breathing largely by the unwavering, if unthinking, allegiance of high-ranking politicians. But that too may soon pass away.

It's one thing for a politician, in the thick of a campaign, to rally the faithful in all his shirtsleeved, open-necked, down-home glory. "I'm one of you" the look is supposed to say -- accurately or not. But there are, or used to be, occasions when the people don't want their leaders to look like one of them -- at least not what they look like when they are out washing the car.

Mr. Obama breaks tradition on both counts. He skips the tie at major indoor events, not just outdoor rallies and Rock the Vote concerts sponsored by MTV. He goes tieless not merely in his shirtsleeves, or even with a blazer. He carries the open-necked look into a realm it was never meant to go: with the two-piece, dark business suit.

This heresy earns the young senator praise from today's keepers of the style tablets. The Washington Post's Robin Givhan -- the acid-penned Madame Blackwell of the Beltway -- could hardly contain herself. "[Obama's] tieless suit," she gushed, "[is] a cross between the style of a 1950s home-from-the-office dad and a 1990s GQ man about town. It is warmly, safely, nostalgically . . . cool."

Others have noticed something else. Take the impeccably liberal Jeff Greenfield. "Ask yourself," he challenged his CNN audience, "is there any other major public figure who dresses the way he does? Why, yes. It is Iranian President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad, who, unlike most of his predecessors, seems to have skipped through enough copies of GQ to find the jacket-and-no-tie look agreeable."

We can thank Mr. Greenfield for being reckless enough to say what many were thinking. But he mistakes Mr. Ahmadinejad's source. Mr. Obama may have gotten the idea from GQ, but the Iranian President got it from the Ayatollah Khomeini.

One of the lesser-known outcomes of the 1979 Iranian revolution was the stigmatization of the tie as a tool of Western Imperialism. The Ayatollah even denounced some of his perceived enemies as "tie-wearing cronies of the West." Today in much of the Islamist world, the tie is seen as not merely pro-Western but anti-Islamic, even though no prohibition of the garment can be found in Islamic law. There is a stricture against men wearing silk, but Muslim dandies can get around that by wearing cashmere or linen ties -- and many do.

It's hard to think of anything less hip -- or less intended to be hip -- than Islamist dogma on personal grooming. Yet despite traveling radically different routes along the way, Messrs. Obama and Ahmadinejad somehow manage to wind up in the same sartorial spot. Sort of like the way Ron Paul and Dennis Kucinich share virtually identical foreign policies.

We should hope that the tie survives. It is too noble a garment to let go for light and transient, or dark and sinister, causes. The good news is that Mr. Obama's foray into tielessness does not stem from deeply held ideology. When it really counts, he does the right thing. No doubt, should he make it to the end, his neck will be covered on inauguration day. Just like JFK's head.

Nicholas Antongiavanni is the pen name of Michael Anton. He is author of The Suit: A Machiavellian Approach to Men's Style (Collins, 2006).

If you do a Google image search for Obama and Ahmadinejad you'll find far more pictures of Mr. Ahmadinejad sans tie than you will Obama. I prefer the the suit, shirt look without a tie but there is always a time and a place for things. Job interviews, wedding, funerals, inaugurations, and the like should always warrant a tie. Perhaps Ms. Manners or Emily Post will have something to say about the proper events to wear a tie to.

Thursday, January 03, 2008

Gorgeous Handbags Without Breaking the Bank

It is so tempting to blow an entire paycheck (or just your definition of an obscene amount of money for a bag to carry your stuff in) on a breathtaking handbag.

Last fall I visited a sample sale and found some pretty fabulous bags by Maxx New York. My favorite bag is their Suede Quilted Satchel - this is one huge handbag and could probably provide shelter to a small family. The Patent Croco is a very close 2nd, only because I already have a bag in croco (fake croco of course).

I recently found some of their last season bags on the local TJ Maxx store with a very reasonable price tag (if that's even possible). I saw the Suede Quilted Shoulder in leopard with a TJ Maxx price of $99!

My favorite handbags always have the best storage. Plenty of slots, spots and pockets for your cell phone, iPod, PDA or whatever else you can think of to schlep around. Maxx is great with the pockets as are Cole Haan handbags. I'll gush about Cole Haan bags another day. Bottom line ... if you're worried about your bottom line and a slight splurge for a great bag is doable, look into Maxx. They have very classic designs from the quilted to the patent leather to more trendy styles and colors (patent leather blue).

Tuesday, January 01, 2008

It's Been One Year!

Happy Anniversary El Guapo! It's been a whole year since he joined our family (see original post http://jennypah.blogspot.com/2007/01/new-addition.html). And that just answered my early morning question to myself: Are stores open today?

Happy 2008 and it's a rainy, grey day in New Jersey - what a blah way to start the new year. Perhaps tomorrow will be sunnier.